When we humans think or talk about motivation, it has often something to do with the expectations we have of ourselves. When the bad conscience comes from yourself, it is because you have made choices that go against your own desires and expectations. In Discover How To Increase Your Running Motivation we will discuss that.
For example, if you have set a running goal, made a plan for how to train to achieve the goal, and then do not follow the plan, it can give bad conscience. You could also go against your personal values for how you want to live and train and then it gives you bad conscience.
But if the bad conscience comes from within, it can actually be a help as you can use it to stop and ask yourself, “Hello, am I in the process of compromising my goals or values?” However, when the bad conscience comes from within, it is most crucial that you stop and assess whether your expectations of yourself are unrealistic high.
Have you set your expectations too high about the time you have available or to your physical ability?
If, on the other hand, you have set realistic but far too low expectations for yourself, it can give the feeling that you are wasting your talent or your time instead of taking benefits of your opportunities and train more.
It can give you a bad conscience that you are not fully utilizing your potential. The bad conscience is good in these cases and should be seen as a loving “kick in the ass” to yourself and a reminder to find out if your motivation is declining.
What motivates you?
When you need to find your motivation to reach your running goal, it can be helpful for you to find out if your motivation is based on something you want to avoid
or something you want to achieve. It is often easy to see how we as humans are motivated.
Some achieve the greatest motivation if it is based on fear (to avoid), while others have greater motivation for something they want to achieve. If you are in doubt about your own motivation direction, the next section might help you on the way.
Find a positive worded goal
Imagine an African Savannah with a lion and a wildebeest. The lion wants to catch the wildebeest, while the wildebeest for everything in the world wants to avoid being caught.
Scared to death and without direction the wildebeests, therefore, run for their lives, while the lion, who is far more determined on catching the wildebeest, can keep the focus on the goal, lay out a strategy, and achieve to catch the wildebeest.
When the wildebeest achieves its goal, which is to escape from the lion, it falls back to its normal life. This is how it will continue until it is attacked again and has to flee. The lion, on the other hand, will continue its hunt until the goal is reached and then it will set a new goal and pursue it, and in this way, it will go on and on. The lion never runs out of what it wants to achieve – food.
The lesson of this story about the lion and the wildebeest are that if your motivation is based on something you want to avoid, then you will often change direction and not determine the degree of your motivation yourself.
It will fluctuate in line with your fear of what you want to avoid. If you are motivated by something you want to avoid, then you will find that you lose motivation at the moment you get away from it.
If, on the other hand, you are motivated by something you want to achieve, then you have a specific focus and thus greater chances of reaching the goal. You will also be better at setting a new goal and pursuing it. Just like the lion on the Savannah.
If you think back to your last goals – what motivated you? Something you wanted to avoid, or something you wanted to achieve?
What if we, for example, paraphrases a goal such as you want to avoid becoming overweight to: “I want to achieve my ideal weight”? then it goes from something you want to avoid to something you want to achieve. Then you change from being a wildebeest to becoming a lion. If you want to avoid a lifestyle disease, then you could change the goal to “I want to achieve greater health”? Try to think about it and find out what you want – rather than what you want to avoid!
The feeling of not being good enough
Do you feel that you should run because others will think badly of you if you do not train?
You are not alone in this. If you went down to a gym or a running club and had an honest talk with the members, then there will be more who have the training as their fixed point in an otherwise chaotic and not always happy life – especially in these pandemic times.
Why is it like that? There are several reasons for this, but one of them is that training is something tangible. It is either something you can get success with or not get success with. It is something that potentially can change how you look, how others see you, and how you look at yourself. Everything is important for whether you feel good enough.
If it is the case that you are not actually happy with yourself or the life you are living, then it is natural that you take on something that you feel is easier to control and more tangible for you. You may have many successful experiences and other benefits that can give you strengthened self-confidence, but it does not necessarily do anything about your self-esteem. Do you know the difference between self-confidence and self-esteem?
Self-confidence Increase Motivation
self-confidence is something quite specific. It is your belief that you can accomplish a particular task and you can succeed in something specific. You can e.g. have high self-confidence about running, but low self-confidence with swimming. You may even have high self-confidence about running 5 km, but low self-confidence to running 10 km.
Your self-confidence is important for your motivation and your commitment to a project. If you do not believe that it will succeed for you, then you may be more vulnerable when adversity strikes you, and see challenges as a confirmation that it will not succeed. How will you build confidence around a goal about running? There are things you can do that are important for you in buildup self-confidence two of them are:
Past success experiences that are similar to the task you are facing now. Think back to the times when you managed and completed a demanding task. You can e.g. have trained after a plan in a long period and completed a goal which thus became a success. What was it that actually succeeded for you? What did you do to get started? What worked?
Try to make the memories as sensory-based as possible to really get the full emotional experience. An important element in building self-confidence is of course also to succeed in what you are doing right now. Here it is important that you set realistic expectations for yourself so that you do not end up in a situation where you constantly disappoint yourself and therefore eventually give up.
If your confidence in one area is not the greatest in the world, then start with small steps and build up from there over time. For example, being able to run for 4 minutes without a break could be the first step on the road to running your first half-marathon.
An important factor in building the belief that you can succeed with your running project is to be told by others such as your coach that they believe you can do it. You definitely already know who you want to hear it from. There are people where their faith in you does not matter and where you just want to say thank you and think “You just say that because…” and then there are others where it really makes a difference that they believe in you.
Those where you can feel that “when they believe in me, I can!” But no matter who it is, keep in mind that if they say you can, it’s either because they actually believe you can, or because they love you and want to support you on the path to the goal. Whether it is the one or the other you should take it to you. If there is not enough in your close circle of friends who say it to you then find someone whose opinion you trust and get the support from there. Just remember that it means something positive when those who care about you say they believe in you.
With Self-Esteem Motivation is Easy
While self-confidence is the belief that you can have power and succeed in a specific task, self-esteem is your general image of yourself as a human being. Therefore, you should consider yourself to be a human being who has value to the world around you, that it means something to someone that you are here. High self-esteem forms a solid foundation for achieving goals with the challenges you choose. Use your self-esteem to feel what you want and do it for your own sake.
Become aware of your goal
Knowing the answer to why you want to run can help give you motivation and at the same time be the foundation for the plan that needs to be made. There can be many reasons why you would like to run. Try to think about your reasons for running such as:
• I want to train to lose weight
• I want to train to improve my performance and set new records or complete exciting competitions.
• I want to exercise to improve my health or just stay healthy and full of energy
• A completely different reason
The clearer your goal is formulated, the easier it is for you to notice if it makes sense to you as well as to layout the right plan to reach the goal. If you are ready to start a running training project now, I can recommend the beginner program and then move on with the specialization.
It obviously depends on your physical starting point. But in Marathon Training Buddy you will find a lot of physiology- and training knowledge to support your running motivation and progress.
The feeling of having a purpose with what you do, a motivation is what it takes to create a result or realize a goal. There is a big difference between just having a dream – and having some specific reasons to fight your way through all the obstacles to your goal. There are many ways to create results, but you should know why you want to create them. You can use a coach or a trusted person to help with realizing your running project.
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